Most Influential Books

My brother is so precious. I say that with no sarcasm at all & a heart full of pride. He’s just that awesome. So for his 17th birthday, for which his party was too cool for me to attend, I decided to give him a meaningful gift (of course in addition to the handful of cash they kids usually get on their birthdays). I know that Hunter is a thinker- he’s reflective & contemplates life. He’s got a rock-solid faith for somebody his age (or any age). I see a lot of similarities (and MANY differences) in where he is now & where I was in high school. So, I wanted to give him some knowledge and wisdom that that I had gained since I had graduated high school. I picked out the three books that changed & formed me the most over the last 14 years. With each of the books, I probably didn’t realize the full impact on my life until years later when I look back at how I’ve changed and grown. These three books, more than any others, influence the way I viewed the world & the role my faith plays in my worldview outside the walls of the church.

Jesus Freaks: Stories of Those Who Stood for Jesus, the Ultimate Jesus Freaks

The first book I selected for him was one that I was reading in high school & was made popular by the band DC Talk who put out an album/song by the same name Jesus Freaks. It’s a collection of short stories about Christian martyrs over the past 200o years. Most of us know about those who died for their faith in the Bible, but reading how the church and Christians have stood strong against all types of governments and persecutions and atrocities throughout the centuries is humbling and inspirational. It puts your difficulties of being caught in a traffic jam in perspective and shames the current Church with how little they will stand up to (and for) when faced with a challenge. It’s so easy to be isolated in America and caught up in our daily life that we forget how fortunate and blessed we have it. This book opened my mind to going on mission trips and taught me how important it is to have humility towards others and serve those in need. After reading about the stories of people who gave their life & made the ultimate sacrifice, it’s hard to reconcile living in a country where people complain when a church service runs a few minutes late. Amazon- Jesus Freaks

Money, Possessions & Eternity

The second book is one that pretty much challenged everything I’d known growing up and created a small crack in my psyche that has continued to grow exponentially over the years. Although Randy Alcorn wrote a smaller book called The Treasure Principle, I had read his longer book Money, Possessions & Eternity in probably about 2005. Although I did grow up strongly believing that the first fruits are returned to the church & that the Bible tells us to be generous, the biblical principles presented in this book really helped me to understand that it all belongs to God, he gives it to us to manage on Earth & it’s to be used for his purposes. Biblical financial principles are pretty much at odds with all things Americana- consumerism and consumption-ism and capitalism. I’ve personally been blessed beyond my wildest dreams & I have come to understand there is more to life than just getting more money and acquiring more things. This book was the first to make the analogy that investing our retirement in the stock market doesn’t have nearly as good returns as investing our time and money into the place we will be retiring to forever- heaven. What we do with our time, talents, money and possessions will have eternal impacts on who gets to heaven and who hears the Good News. The less tightly I can cling to money and physical possessions, the easier time I have letting them go do the work of the kingdom & the less power they have over my soul. I particularly hope this book helps him as he picks a college & a major, decides on a job and a career and he’s bombarded with messages to “Go out and get rich!”, he begins to understand that it’s not all about who dies with the most stuff, but who has been the best disciple and is doing the kingdom work that will last for eternity. Amazon- Money, Possessions & Eternity

God’s Politics: Why the Right Gets It Wrong and the Left Doesn’t Get It

Finally, the last book that I gave him would is probably the single most influential book that I’ve read (outside of the Bible) in my whole life. I liked it enough at first & was really drawn to the ideas and philosophy, but only looking back over the last 3 years of my life can I begin to see the enormous impact that this book has had on my life as I went from a staunch, Bible-thumping, pro-death penalty, ill-informed, conservative voter to a totally hippie-liberal, Jesus was a socialist political junkie. Growing up in a Lutheran church and as a typical Christian, I was taught that abortion is wrong, gay-marriage is wrong, the military is to be revered, global warming wasn’t really a proven thing, guns & the death penalty are good, people on welfare are just milking the system and many other broad generalizations. Now, I’m not going to expand on all of those positions here, but the book enlightened me to the fact that Jesus laid out a very different set of priorities in the way he lived and the parables that he told. Building on the Alcorn book, God’s Politics encourages people to re-examine financial priorities like taxes and described budgets (both personal and governmental) as moral documents that should reflect our values. How much money should be spend on missiles and corporate tax breaks when we are cutting education and health care for children? Does it really matter if global warming is man-made or not when we are called to be caretakers of the earth, including a wise use of our resources and keeping it clean and livable for future generations.

The other theme that really resonated with me was to have a consistent pro-life ethic that included opposing all but the most unavoidable wars, enumerating the many travesties with our justice system that uses the death penalty in a very unjust way, and wanting to decrease unwanted pregnancies (and thus abortion) but still supporting those who want to avoid that situation (proper sex-ed) and supporting those who choose to keep babies (better adoption and infant/child support services). Jesus was a passivist & taught that taking care of the poor and widows (single parents) were to be taken care of by the Church. As I read this book, we were entering a very dark phase of the Afghanistan and Iraq wars and I was personally very upset that we’d launched into these wars so easily. So many of the topics in this book were based on the scriptures and teachings of Jesus that it just hit home that I had been so misguided about which political issues I had focused on. Amazon- God’s Politics

 

So there ya go- the three most influential books I’ve read.  Hopefully they might spark some interest for you too!

 

GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY:  Just started reading The Myth of  Christian Nation & it’s going to be good.

Nashville Marathon Preparations

ETA: So sorry for the accidental early publish!  Too in a hurry to get ahead before our travels….

I signed up for the 2011 Nashville Country Music marathon back in October.  H had wanted to visit. I thought it would be a great weekend getaway with a Saturday run.  Stephanie was going to try to make it down from Philly to run with me.  It was only about 2 weeks ago that I started getting even  more nervous about this race.  I checked & re-checked the map.  I chastised myself for not doing more treadmill work to prepare me for the hills.  When all else failed me, I took to the Google to see what other bloggers had to say about running it in the past few years.  I’ve run the Houston marathon for years & I know what to expect, but I like to be prepared when things might be different.

I discovered several surprising things about the Nashville marathon.  First- they have had AWFUL weather the last 2 years.  In 2009, they had record breaking heat that caused all sorts of problems & in 2010 a massive thunderstorm with wicked lightening and tornadoes forced them to pull most of the marathoners off the course.  My second interesting fact is that this is mostly about the half- marathon & only a small fraction of the runners do the full marathon.   I check out past race results (all on active.com) and various websites report 30,000 to 35,000 people started (or were at least registered for the races).   On average over the past few years, about 22,000 of those are finishing the half-marathon & only about 4,000 are doing the full (different than Houston which has about a 50/50 split between distances).  Both groups start together (also different than Houston) & due to the storms of last year, only 767 people finished the full!

I checked around to find race reviews and race re-caps. I found some great information that I thought I’d compile for others looking to scope out this race in the future.

-Steph’s 50 Challenge (2009 race rating & score & tips/travel)

-Grizzly Goose (2010 Race review)

-2010 Full Race review

-2010 Full Race review & DNF due to stopping race for thunderstorms

-2010 Full Race review 2 & DNF due to stopping race for thunderstorms

-2010 Full Race review

-2010 Half Race review (by my friend in Houston!)

-2009 Full Review

Also unlike Houston, this course is a point-to-point.  Luckily, we are staying downtown & will probably taxi it to the start line (~3 miles) & end up walking from the finish line  (~1 mile).  I’m curious to see how all the looping and cross-overs will work out.  Some of the complaints I’d read about were crowding at the start & crowding near the finish area as the full marathoners run along side the half-marathoners.  Not sure if it’s good, but these loops give me 3 chances to run by our hotel & quit!  The reviews indicated great crowd support, but that the 2nd half of the full might be a little lonely.  I’m excited to see the town & hoping to hear some good music along the way.

I do need to discuss this little guy though.  I loved hills- when I could train on them. Now that I am from the flat-lands, I am officially terrified of them.  This graph really gives me no idea how big these hills are- just that some are long.  Um, hello 3 mile long hill between mile 2.5 and 5.5!  I’ve been training at about 4% on the treadmill, but have no idea if that is comparable.  I was worried about the hills in Philly, but they were so small that they were almost imperceptible.  I’m excited to see the town (hello Grand Ol’ Opry!) and hang out with my best friend- let’s hope this marathon goes as well as the last few!

 

GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY:  Forecast is for 55 degrees Friday night- come on cool weather!

Beautiful Weeds

I had this post all typed out & my computer crashed.  Guess the words weren’t right & I can pen something more inspiring.  I’ve been on creativity kick lately.  I think it’s a combination of the meditation from yoga & some wonderful inspirations blogs I’ve found in the past few months.  I decided to take the dogs for a walk in their usual place a few weeks back- the green space below some very large power lines.  I quickly forgot about the pups & was suddenly entranced by all the beautiful blooming weeds.

Quickly I set off on a quest to see how many different kinds of flowers I could find on my trek through the quickly growing weeds.

Came across these tiny little daisies & was reminded of my years in girl scouts before I actually graduated to brownie.

So out in this ordinary field, full of a tangle of weed growing wild, I sought out the beauty and simplicity of the flowers of the field.

So tiny, so delicate, so perfect.  They make just a brief appearance & will quickly melt away in the summer’s heat.

The beautiful flowers reminded me to quit worrying & stressing.  I love The Message translation of Matthew 6:28-33.

“Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them.

“If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

I’ll admit- I’ve been a bit stressed out lately.  Some with myself, some with my job, some with my husband, some with my pups & some with life in general.

But amongst the chaos and turmoil, I have discovered a new interest all things right-brained.  I suddenly want to check out more museums and exhibits.  My iTunes is always going with music, especially some new stuff I’ve fallen in love with.  Inspired by blogs, I have taken on a few tiny DIY projects and writing exercises I hope to share soon.  I find myself breathing deeper, going slower and getting a little more out of each minute of the day instead of rushing through them.

I’m really digging it.  I feel like I’m growing & maturing in new ways.  I spent the last 30 years of my life perfecting all things analytical and logical that could be explained in black and white or with an equation.  I’m thoroughly enjoying diving into these new ideas and adventures.

I found several flowers like this that were facing down & hiding their beautiful insides.

Then I came across nature in action as this giant bee was pollinating this crazy looking flower.  I thoroughly enjoyed my walk in the weeds, seeing all their beautiful blooms and reminding myself to see the good in all things.

 

GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY:  Got our leaking A/C fixed so that it’s not dripping down through the ceiling, down the walls and out of our living room fan.

Travel Art

Seeing as I’ve had several questions about what I do with all my photos, especially my travel photos & I left out for LA last night, headed home tonight on the red-eye, I thought it would be a good time to share how I display travel art in our house.

I started out very modestly, with a very basic camera on our Greece & Italy trip in 2005.  I simply had some prints made and stuck them in a frame- one for each country.  These are just scenery photos- none of us together.  I really should get them blown up larger now that we have the room.

My most favorite place for sharing all our travel photos is these two spiral collage frame with a photo of us together in each of the major cities/countries we’ve visited.

I adore adore adore this. It’s pictures of us doing our thing- seeing the world, setting off on so many adventures, making so many memories.

Since all the frames are full, I’m going to have to start taking down my least favorite- but it will be hard to choose! I think I will replace the ones of us in the U.S. first (top photo is in Miami in 2003).

My first really good photos I took were on our Brazil & Argentina trip.  We had one photo from each place we visited (Buenos Aires, Rio, Iguazu Falls & Parati) enlarged into a beautiful canvas that we brought from our other house to hang in our dining room.

For our trip to South Africa, we ended up falling in love with this amazing painting in Johannesburg.

I do enjoy having my photos, but there’s only so many collage and canvases we can put up around our house.  We both just adored this piece & thought it would be a great memento from our trip.

I’d been stalking a few amazing iron-work pieces for over our bed in our old house, but I decided to go with a canvas from our trip to Cozumel- where the sense of tranquility and relaxation penetrated from the brilliant blue colors of the ocean.

As for the thousands of photos I take on each big trip, they all go into a My Publisher book.  I also make a separate book for each year we are married, scrap-booking all our memories and milestones.

And then I make a separate, more detailed book containing all the details & stunning photos from our trips.    We still dig them out occasionally and flip through them- enjoying the few minutes we travel back to the wonderful and special vacation moments and our shared history of exploring the world together.

 

GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY: Catching a red-eye home from LA & should be landing any minute.

Caribbean Night

Last weekend, we celebrated 3 birthdays with our friends.  Since my birthday was actually on Saturday & so was Liz’s,  we usually throw a joint birthday bash for all the friends since hubby’s birthday is only 3 days after mine.  His mom was nice enough to follow the sushi party from last year with a Caribbean themed night at Liz’s house.

We had all sorts of amazing foods- pulled pork, jerk chicken wings, bacon wrapped scallops, a shrimp & avocado ceviche and much more!

We got our fruity drinks out & started decorating the house for a party

Lots of friends, lots of food, lots of fun & lots of laughs as usual when this group gets together.

Mike & Liz are officially dating now, as Matt & Savanha are officially planning their wedding.

I’m so glad to have such a great group of girlfriends- I’ve really enjoyed hanging out with them (especially are more happy hours).

We all shared one enormous cake from Dessert Gallery, but it was hard to coordinate 4 people, 1 cake & candles blowing out as everybody sang.

Such gorgeous weather & a perfect day to hang outside on the patio as the full moon rose over our feast food, drinks (Rum Runners, Pina Coladas, Cuba Libres, Red Stripes and more!).

 

GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY: Luckily I have free wi-fi and a few spare minutes while I am out in California & before I hop on the red-eye home tonight.

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